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Steven R
Steven R

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Need help with a project

Hi everyone. I am seeking some help on a project that will hopefully in time save my relationship as well as give me a piece of mind to help keep me sane. My partner and I are a gay couple, and we like to have fun from time to time, when we do our thing we use a website, that in turn has a lot of different aspects to it. My need here is, I need a way to potentially monitor his activity through the website, the catch is, you don't have to have a registered profile, in fact most profiles are anon on there, so instead of monitoring his account, I think monitoring the area would be more reasonable, but only receive notification when certain triggers are met. If that makes any sense.... Please someone help me, I dearly love my fiance, but this website is going to ruin our relationship and id rather know them look dumb and clueless if something is going on

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Kostas Kalafatis

I'm sorry you're going through this, but creating and installing spyware on your partner's device is unethical and likely illegal. It violates trust and privacy, which are crucial in any relationship. Instead of resorting to monitoring without consent, consider having an open conversation with your partner about your concerns. Building a healthy relationship requires honesty and communication. If you're unsure how to approach it, seeking guidance from a counselor or therapist could help navigate these difficult conversations in a respectful manner.