Is being a programmer really for me? Anxiety for a graduate without a job. HELP

A friend of mine once told me programming is a huge sausage fest. I ignored that and focused on my degree.

Now my lack of action with the people I wanted in college and lack of success in dating is fucking with my head.

I got the CS degree, I want to make a tech company, but I also want to get with fitness influencers on Instagram.

and the more I think of that, the more I wonder if Programming is really for me or not.

Is Programming really such an awful sausage fest as my friend described? Or is it more nuanced than that?

Nuance would REALLY help my anxiety today, friends.